Monday, July 21, 2014

We finally made it!!!!


We finally made it!!!  This class has been a huge workload and there were times that I never thought we would see the other end, but it was all worth it!  I learned a lot about myself and my own health and how important every aspect of health truly should be!  In unit 3, my current standings were:

Physical Well-Being: 3
Spiritual Well-Being: 7
Mental Well-Being: 5

Now, I would say that my physical well-being is the same, my spiritual well-being is the same, but my mental well-being has increased to 6.  I am hoping that now that I have a little bit more time to myself that I will be able to focus more on my physical and spiritual health.

I haven’t made much progress towards the goals that I set previously, but I think that I have started the preparation to actually working toward these goals.  I think that it is important for me to make some actual lifestyle changes and be really ready to do this.  I fall back on bad and easy habits too often, so I think that I need to take more time beforehand to ensure I have everything in place so I can really focus making these changes.

I have actually really enjoyed blogging.  Though the workload has been difficult, it was fun to blog and post with peers in a less formal way.  I think that finding an outlet and a way to process your thoughts, such as blogging, is important when you are in a profession of assisting other people.  It is a good way to let off steam and really focus on what it is that is on your mind.


Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Final Project

Sorry I'm so late with posting this, but here it is in all of its glory...  MY FINAL PROJECT!!!  drumroll please....

Unit 9 Final Project: Personal Health
“A man should first direct himself in the way he should go.  Only then should he instruct others.” – Buddha (Thinkexist, 2014).  In order for a health care professional of any modality to be effective, they must set an example for their clients and patients.  They are walking billboards of their commitment and belief in their profession.  This is why it is absolutely vital for health and wellness professionals to continuously challenge themselves and develop psychologically, spiritually, and physically.  Dacher (2006) charges health and wellness professionals with the directive “walk the walk.”  In order to do so, an individual must be honest with them self and identify areas of improvement, determine their own personal goals, and make plans to affectively attain and maintain these goals.
In my own personal journey toward integral health, I have found that perfection in any of these interconnected areas is impossible to attain.  That said, I continuously strive to better myself physically, mentally, spiritually, and psychologically.  In order to find areas of growth in these aspects, it is important that an individual assess their health.  This should be done for each domain separately, although the end goal may be the same.  First, an individual should evaluate their lives for the sources of their greatest struggles.  Next, they need to find where there is opportunity for growth and development.  These two tasks can be done through deep listening and guidance (Dacher, 2006).  In the physical and spiritual domains, these questions were easily answered.  Physically, I need to become more active but also find a way to relax.  Spiritually, I need to deepen my relationship with God and become more open to His direction.  Mentally and psychologically were very difficult domains for me to determine sources of struggle.  However, after careful reflection, I found that both shared a common source of frustration.  This is that I am overextending myself which is causing stress psychologically and fatigue mentally.  Once an individual has established their struggles, it is important to clearly state their goals for each domain.
The goals that an individual establishes for each domain should be individualized and personal.  This will allow the individual a strong connection and commitment to achievement of their goals.  In my own personal goals, I found that they shared a common theme of relaxation and time management.  For my physical goal, I need to build my strength, endurance, and health while staying flexible as I age.  The goal that I established is to commit to 30 minutes of exercise 3 times per week.  For my spiritual goal, I see a weakness in consistency with dedicating time to my devotions.  The goal that I have established is to spend 10 minutes daily in prayer, devotion, or meditation.  For my mental and psychological goal, I need to reduce my stress and develop a better attitude toward others.  This is the most difficult goal for me to establish as it is not really something that is quantifiable.  However, I believe that the best goal I can establish would be to learn to forgive and forget even when people do not ask for it.  Once goals have been established it is important to commit to practices that will allow the individual to attain their goals.
There are a large amount of practices that an individual can choose and tailor towards meeting their personal goals.  In order to meet my physical goal of exercising 30 minutes 3 times per week, I have chosen two practices that I think will help me to build up strength, endurance, and flexibility.  The first activity or practice that I have chosen is running.  I believe that by developing a plan to go from walking to running that it will help me to build up my endurance and discipline.  This will also allow me to see progression toward my goal which will help me to remain motivated.  The second activity is yoga.  I think that yoga will help me to increase my flexibility which I also believe will be helpful as I age.  For my spiritual goal of 10 minutes in prayer, meditation, or devotion, I plan to practice this by utilizing one of the guided meditations provided throughout this course until I am comfortable meditating on my own.  This will allow me to be open to what God is saying to me.  Additionally I plan to do some time management by setting my alarm 10 minutes early in the morning.  I will then spend the extra 10 minutes in prayer before I leave the house for work in the morning.  This will allow set time and I will not be as tired as I would be trying to pray at night.  For my psychological goal, I plan to practice the loving kindness exercises as described by Dacher (2006.)  I believe that this will assist me in learning to relate more effectively with individuals and to “forgive and forget.”  Lastly, I believe that by overextending myself I am making mindfulness of the current moment impossible.  I plan to practice mindfulness by taking time out for myself and saying no to additional commitments.  I will make sure that I have more time set aside for enjoying the time that I have instead of spending it on various commitments that I feel obligated to complete.  By spending time on these practices I will ensure that I am progressing towards my goals.
Progress is a very important part of attaining any goal.  However, it is important that an individual assess the progress that they are making so that they can correct or change their practices as necessary.  According to Mueller (2014), there are four important aspects on which to assess the progress of attaining your health goals.  The first of these aspects is your energy level.  Currently my energy level is very low due to overextending myself and excessive stress.  With the goals that I have set and practices that I plan to implement, I believe that this will provide an increase in energy which should be a good indicator of success.  The second aspect is stress level.  All of the practices that I plan to implement are meant to reduce or manage stress.  If these practices work as they should, then seeing a reduction in stress level would also point toward a positive direction.  The next of these aspects is quality of sleep.  In my current state, I sleep approximately 6 hours a night.  However, I fall asleep instantaneously when I sit down.  It has become very difficult for me to accomplish schoolwork or spend time with my children as I am so tired throughout the day.  By managing stress, expending unnecessary energy, and gaining mental focus, this should allow me the opportunity to truly rest and get a better night’s sleep.  The last aspect is self-esteem.  With each accomplishment and step towards my goals, it will allow me to increase my self-esteem.  When individuals see themselves succeed, it increases their desire for more success and their confidence in their own abilities.  In addition to assessment, it is also important that strategies be put into place for long term success.  One of the greatest strategies that an individual can implement is social support.  Social support allows individuals additional strength when they may find it difficult to accomplish their goals.  Individuals who receive social support are more successful in reaching and maintaining their goals (Mayo Clinic, 2012).  Additionally it is also an important strategy for individual to plan ahead.  Adequate planning for resources and time management allow the individual to be prepared for unexpected occurrences.  Time management would allow the individual the necessary period to set aside and focus on personal development and growth.     
Personal growth and development can only take place when an individual honestly identifies their weaknesses, establishes goals, and implements practices that turn their weaknesses to strength.  It is only through continuous and positive evolution that an individual can hope to obtain integral health and happiness.  Oscar Wilde stated that “the final mystery is oneself.”  Through determination, commitment, and the path to integral health, an individual can hope to unlock the mystery, answer the questions, and find joy in their true self.

   
References
Dacher, E.  (2006).  Integral Health the Path to Human Flourishing.  Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications Inc. 
Mayo Clinic.  (2012).  Social Support: Tap this tool to beat stress.  Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living/stress-management/in-depth/social-support/art-20044445?pg=1
Mueller, J.  (2014).  4 Easy Ways to Assess Your Well-Being.  Retrieved from http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/wellness_articles.asp?id=1358&page=2

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Prayer and Meditation

The two exercises that I chose as being the most beneficial were the crime of the century (which I still have no idea why they called it that) and meeting aesclipius.  I think that guided meditation was my favorite because it was easier for me.  I liked that it didn’t really have long breaks and pauses for my mind to wander.  Being a novice to meditation, it makes it easier to have the guidance.  I also liked the visualization exercise meeting aeslipius.  It felt like having time to visit with an old friend. 



I’ve been trying to start incorporating meditation into my daily schedule, but I don’t normally have a lot of time.  I know that it’s important to start devoting more time to myself and my own mental health, but life is pretty chaotic right now with kids, work, and school.  The time that I do have, I am spending praying more than meditating.  I think that by working on my spiritual health it will in turn provide benefit to my mental health.