Monday, July 21, 2014

We finally made it!!!!


We finally made it!!!  This class has been a huge workload and there were times that I never thought we would see the other end, but it was all worth it!  I learned a lot about myself and my own health and how important every aspect of health truly should be!  In unit 3, my current standings were:

Physical Well-Being: 3
Spiritual Well-Being: 7
Mental Well-Being: 5

Now, I would say that my physical well-being is the same, my spiritual well-being is the same, but my mental well-being has increased to 6.  I am hoping that now that I have a little bit more time to myself that I will be able to focus more on my physical and spiritual health.

I haven’t made much progress towards the goals that I set previously, but I think that I have started the preparation to actually working toward these goals.  I think that it is important for me to make some actual lifestyle changes and be really ready to do this.  I fall back on bad and easy habits too often, so I think that I need to take more time beforehand to ensure I have everything in place so I can really focus making these changes.

I have actually really enjoyed blogging.  Though the workload has been difficult, it was fun to blog and post with peers in a less formal way.  I think that finding an outlet and a way to process your thoughts, such as blogging, is important when you are in a profession of assisting other people.  It is a good way to let off steam and really focus on what it is that is on your mind.


Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Final Project

Sorry I'm so late with posting this, but here it is in all of its glory...  MY FINAL PROJECT!!!  drumroll please....

Unit 9 Final Project: Personal Health
“A man should first direct himself in the way he should go.  Only then should he instruct others.” – Buddha (Thinkexist, 2014).  In order for a health care professional of any modality to be effective, they must set an example for their clients and patients.  They are walking billboards of their commitment and belief in their profession.  This is why it is absolutely vital for health and wellness professionals to continuously challenge themselves and develop psychologically, spiritually, and physically.  Dacher (2006) charges health and wellness professionals with the directive “walk the walk.”  In order to do so, an individual must be honest with them self and identify areas of improvement, determine their own personal goals, and make plans to affectively attain and maintain these goals.
In my own personal journey toward integral health, I have found that perfection in any of these interconnected areas is impossible to attain.  That said, I continuously strive to better myself physically, mentally, spiritually, and psychologically.  In order to find areas of growth in these aspects, it is important that an individual assess their health.  This should be done for each domain separately, although the end goal may be the same.  First, an individual should evaluate their lives for the sources of their greatest struggles.  Next, they need to find where there is opportunity for growth and development.  These two tasks can be done through deep listening and guidance (Dacher, 2006).  In the physical and spiritual domains, these questions were easily answered.  Physically, I need to become more active but also find a way to relax.  Spiritually, I need to deepen my relationship with God and become more open to His direction.  Mentally and psychologically were very difficult domains for me to determine sources of struggle.  However, after careful reflection, I found that both shared a common source of frustration.  This is that I am overextending myself which is causing stress psychologically and fatigue mentally.  Once an individual has established their struggles, it is important to clearly state their goals for each domain.
The goals that an individual establishes for each domain should be individualized and personal.  This will allow the individual a strong connection and commitment to achievement of their goals.  In my own personal goals, I found that they shared a common theme of relaxation and time management.  For my physical goal, I need to build my strength, endurance, and health while staying flexible as I age.  The goal that I established is to commit to 30 minutes of exercise 3 times per week.  For my spiritual goal, I see a weakness in consistency with dedicating time to my devotions.  The goal that I have established is to spend 10 minutes daily in prayer, devotion, or meditation.  For my mental and psychological goal, I need to reduce my stress and develop a better attitude toward others.  This is the most difficult goal for me to establish as it is not really something that is quantifiable.  However, I believe that the best goal I can establish would be to learn to forgive and forget even when people do not ask for it.  Once goals have been established it is important to commit to practices that will allow the individual to attain their goals.
There are a large amount of practices that an individual can choose and tailor towards meeting their personal goals.  In order to meet my physical goal of exercising 30 minutes 3 times per week, I have chosen two practices that I think will help me to build up strength, endurance, and flexibility.  The first activity or practice that I have chosen is running.  I believe that by developing a plan to go from walking to running that it will help me to build up my endurance and discipline.  This will also allow me to see progression toward my goal which will help me to remain motivated.  The second activity is yoga.  I think that yoga will help me to increase my flexibility which I also believe will be helpful as I age.  For my spiritual goal of 10 minutes in prayer, meditation, or devotion, I plan to practice this by utilizing one of the guided meditations provided throughout this course until I am comfortable meditating on my own.  This will allow me to be open to what God is saying to me.  Additionally I plan to do some time management by setting my alarm 10 minutes early in the morning.  I will then spend the extra 10 minutes in prayer before I leave the house for work in the morning.  This will allow set time and I will not be as tired as I would be trying to pray at night.  For my psychological goal, I plan to practice the loving kindness exercises as described by Dacher (2006.)  I believe that this will assist me in learning to relate more effectively with individuals and to “forgive and forget.”  Lastly, I believe that by overextending myself I am making mindfulness of the current moment impossible.  I plan to practice mindfulness by taking time out for myself and saying no to additional commitments.  I will make sure that I have more time set aside for enjoying the time that I have instead of spending it on various commitments that I feel obligated to complete.  By spending time on these practices I will ensure that I am progressing towards my goals.
Progress is a very important part of attaining any goal.  However, it is important that an individual assess the progress that they are making so that they can correct or change their practices as necessary.  According to Mueller (2014), there are four important aspects on which to assess the progress of attaining your health goals.  The first of these aspects is your energy level.  Currently my energy level is very low due to overextending myself and excessive stress.  With the goals that I have set and practices that I plan to implement, I believe that this will provide an increase in energy which should be a good indicator of success.  The second aspect is stress level.  All of the practices that I plan to implement are meant to reduce or manage stress.  If these practices work as they should, then seeing a reduction in stress level would also point toward a positive direction.  The next of these aspects is quality of sleep.  In my current state, I sleep approximately 6 hours a night.  However, I fall asleep instantaneously when I sit down.  It has become very difficult for me to accomplish schoolwork or spend time with my children as I am so tired throughout the day.  By managing stress, expending unnecessary energy, and gaining mental focus, this should allow me the opportunity to truly rest and get a better night’s sleep.  The last aspect is self-esteem.  With each accomplishment and step towards my goals, it will allow me to increase my self-esteem.  When individuals see themselves succeed, it increases their desire for more success and their confidence in their own abilities.  In addition to assessment, it is also important that strategies be put into place for long term success.  One of the greatest strategies that an individual can implement is social support.  Social support allows individuals additional strength when they may find it difficult to accomplish their goals.  Individuals who receive social support are more successful in reaching and maintaining their goals (Mayo Clinic, 2012).  Additionally it is also an important strategy for individual to plan ahead.  Adequate planning for resources and time management allow the individual to be prepared for unexpected occurrences.  Time management would allow the individual the necessary period to set aside and focus on personal development and growth.     
Personal growth and development can only take place when an individual honestly identifies their weaknesses, establishes goals, and implements practices that turn their weaknesses to strength.  It is only through continuous and positive evolution that an individual can hope to obtain integral health and happiness.  Oscar Wilde stated that “the final mystery is oneself.”  Through determination, commitment, and the path to integral health, an individual can hope to unlock the mystery, answer the questions, and find joy in their true self.

   
References
Dacher, E.  (2006).  Integral Health the Path to Human Flourishing.  Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications Inc. 
Mayo Clinic.  (2012).  Social Support: Tap this tool to beat stress.  Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living/stress-management/in-depth/social-support/art-20044445?pg=1
Mueller, J.  (2014).  4 Easy Ways to Assess Your Well-Being.  Retrieved from http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/wellness_articles.asp?id=1358&page=2

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Prayer and Meditation

The two exercises that I chose as being the most beneficial were the crime of the century (which I still have no idea why they called it that) and meeting aesclipius.  I think that guided meditation was my favorite because it was easier for me.  I liked that it didn’t really have long breaks and pauses for my mind to wander.  Being a novice to meditation, it makes it easier to have the guidance.  I also liked the visualization exercise meeting aeslipius.  It felt like having time to visit with an old friend. 



I’ve been trying to start incorporating meditation into my daily schedule, but I don’t normally have a lot of time.  I know that it’s important to start devoting more time to myself and my own mental health, but life is pretty chaotic right now with kids, work, and school.  The time that I do have, I am spending praying more than meditating.  I think that by working on my spiritual health it will in turn provide benefit to my mental health.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Meeting Aesclipius



In this week’s meditation, we completed the exercise Meeting Aesclepius.  In this exercise, we visualized an individual that we found to be a wise, kind, and compassionate person.  Personally, I immediately thought of my favorite teacher, Mr. Baskin.  He was always someone that I went to for advice throughout high school.  He was someone that I looked up to and that I feel really made a change in my life by helping me cultivate my own self-esteem.  In the exercise, you visual a beam of light coming from your mentor’s head, throat, and heart.  These beams of light are to transfer kindness in these areas to you.  From the head you receive kind thoughts, from the throat you receive kind words, and from the heart you receive kindness itself.  I feel like meditation has helped to provide me with an outlet.  Although I do still feel like some of the meditations are too long for me, I do enjoy having time that isn’t focused on the tasks that need to be accomplished or what everyone else wants.  It is nice to have time to focus on myself alone and my own developments.

The saying “one cannot lead another where one has not gone himself,” is synonymous with the saying “practice what you preach.”  You have to have walked the same or similar path as the person you are trying to lead.  This is especially important in the health care field.  Would you really want an obese doctor telling you that you need to lose weight?  I believe that health care professionals have an obligation to their patients to either be in a great state of health or to be working toward that state.  I think that in order to be the best health care professional that I can be, I need to work on my physical, mental, and spiritual health.  To do this, I need to find better time management and make time for physical exercise and meditation.  Without this time and attention to my own health, there is no way that I will be able to help another individual to achieve their own integral health.      

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Integral Assessment



For this blog post, we practiced the loving kindness meditation.  For this meditation, a mantra was repeated that was meant to help an individual evolve from personal love to a universal loving kindness.  The mantra was meant to be repeated in a quiet environment for 10 minutes.  The previous meditations that we performed were guided, while this one provided a description of what to do, but it was performed solely by the individual.  I had a hard time at first trying to concentrate on the mantra, so I decided to put on some background noise to help me focus.  I’ve found from previous meditations that the sound of running water helps me to relax.  There is a great soundtrack on youtube that I use to relax and focus and it includes running water and very slow light piano music.  It really helped me to be able to complete the meditation; especially since the water and music helped to drown out the background noise of having 2 young boys running around the house.  The mantra for the meditation wasn’t really something that felt a connection for me.  However, after reading the paragraph following the meditation, I think I started to understand the purpose of the exercise more clearly.  I think that if I go back through and practice the meditation further that I might be able to find more meaning in the mantra.
The second part of this assignment involved completing an integral assessment.  The assessment had two questions with multiple parts.  The first question focused on what aspect of my life was the source of difficulty and suffering, what my current level of development is in this area, and what I can aim for.  The second question focused on growth and development opportunities and whether or not these were the same as the area that requires healing.  I’m actually still working on the assessment, and I’m not sure if I’m overthinking it too much.  I probably am, but they are both such big questions.  First off, my current source of difficulty and suffering is that I’ve spread myself too thin by taking on school, work, and my kids.  As to how to aim for this, I have no idea.  I think I really need to sit down and reprioritize my life.  All three things are important to me, most especially my kids.  However, at this time I really need to find a way to do it all and find some better time management.  I think this is something that I will need to spend more time than a couple of days figuring out.  As for the second question, I feel stumped.  Looking for growth and development opportunities is very difficult.  There are a lot of areas that I feel like I need growth and development in, but I don’t really know if I am ready for it.  One example is my health.  Currently I’m at an age where if I don’t start taking better care of myself, I will wind up with a lot of health problems later on in life.  However, I’m so over stretched time wise that I don’t have the time or energy to fully devote to making a healthy lifestyle a priority.  One thing that I can do that may help is to start scheduling in time for exercise and become more organized with my scheduling.  Another activity might be to start making out a meal plan once a week to ensure that I have good and healthy foods in the house to eat.  I think that my assessment definitely needs some more work, but this class is really forcing me to reevaluate my personal definition of health and start to take it more seriously than I have in the past.
~ Sandra   

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Subtle Mind



In this week’s meditation exercise, we listened to the subtle mind meditation.  Again, I had to do the meditation more than once in order to make it all the way through.  I kept falling asleep during the quiet parts with the waves crashing.  Like the loving kindness exercise last week, this seemed to me to be a bit too long.  However, I did prefer the ideas behind this meditation.  Calming the mind seemed to be much easier than opening to loving kindness.  It also felt more peaceful to me because instead of focusing on the problems of the people I love, I was able to just push problems and thoughts out of my head.  I think that this practice would become more of my everyday meditation.



I have certainly noticed a connection between spiritual wellness and my mental and physical wellness.  For me, I have gone through a time of tremendous spiritual growth in the past year.  Through this, I learned that I was experiencing control and trust issues.  It was only through growing spiritually that I’ve been able to really tackle this problem.  It was actually one of the most difficult things that I have ever done, to let go of my control over myself, my family, and especially my children.  I prayed very hard about this and placed the people that I love in the hands of God.  Since then I have noticed tremendous amounts of peace.  I certainly have moments of fear and panic, but I am continuously working on laying these problems at God’s feet and trusting that he will care for us.  Before my spiritual growth, I was constantly depressed and experiencing panic attacks.  I have found that my spiritual wellness has made my depression much more manageable and I have barely experienced a panic attack in the last 6 months.  There is certainly a correlation between our spiritual, mental, and physical health.    

Saturday, June 7, 2014

Loving Kindness

This week we completed the Loving Kindness activity.  Throughout the activity, we worked on self-love and the expansion of that emotion from ourselves into the people that are closest to us and then further into the rest of the world.  I personally had to do this exercise three times.  The first time it was difficult for me to really concentrate and expand my feelings outside of myself.  After that, it was much easier to really understand and be present.  However, I think that in order to really benefit from this exercise, I would need to complete it a few more times.

Mentally working out is a concept where an individual trains their mind much the same way they would their bodies.  Some of the benefits of this would be the increased ability to understand and retain information.  Also, mentally working out can aid in mental alertness.  This allows the individual to be present in the situation regardless of anything else on their minds.  I think that mental workouts would help me to be more focused and in turn foster my psychological health.  It’s important that we follow the advice of use it or lose it!